Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively are embracing the chaos that comes with raising four tiny humans.
Reynolds, 47, opened up about his family life in a recent episode of the podcast “Not Skinny But Not Fat”, sharing his candid thoughts on parenting and the importance of cherishing every moment.
“Embrace the chaos,” he advised, emphasizing that he and Lively, 36, have learned to accept the unpredictable nature of raising four kids. “We have four kids — like, OK, nothing’s going to be tidy ever again.” But, as he quipped, “it will, though, when they all leave the house.”
Reynolds shared some wise words from Lively, who always reminds him that “they’re all under our roof right now. The whole family’s under our roof right now. We have them all.” And that, he notes, is a fleeting thing.
The couple, who tied the knot in 2012, share daughters James, 9, Inez, 7, Betty, 4, and son Olin, 1. Their youngest was born in early 2023, with Reynolds and Lively eventually revealing his name and sex in July of this year.
“It does get to you,” Reynolds admitted of his parental duties. “And it’s OK to be like, ‘This is overwhelming.’ Because that’s gonna happen every other day.”
He revealed that nighttime is a struggle because some of their kids “can’t even go to sleep unless they’re in our bed.”
While he’d “love to spread out and fall asleep normally again,” the Deadpool and Wolverine star keeps his wife’s perspective top of mind. “Just say, ‘Think about what you would give in 40 years or 30 years to come back and enjoy this one moment.’”
Reynolds included his brood in Deadpool and Wolverine, arranging cameos from Lively (Lady Deadpool), Inez (Kidpool), Olin (Babypool) and James (Screaming Mutant). Betty, meanwhile, was credited as a “Hugh Jackman Wrangler.”
Reynolds spoke about the bond between his Deadpool costar, 55, and his youngest daughter at the movie’s July 22 premiere in New York City.
“They’re all kind of in love with Uncle Hughy over here, so that worked out pretty well,” Reynolds told Extra ahead of the Lincoln Center screening. “[Jackman] got attacked by Betty backstage, who thinks she has claws, so she goes at him. I have to actually give her a little tiny time-out.”
As for his family’s cameos in the film, “It was kind of one of those things where you’re like, ‘Well, why not?’” Reynolds recalled on “Not Skinny But Not Fat.” And since they were “all there together anyway” on the set, they decided, “Yeah, let’s do it. Let’s go nuts.”